You want more pleasure — We’ll show you the beauty and power of the Extended Massive Orgasm! It’s true. I’m Dr. Steve Bodansky, and along with my wife Dr. Vera Bodansky, we’ve dedicated our lives to the study of sensuality and the power of orgasm, and we live to share it with as many people as possible. Contact us. or call us at 925-943-5374 to set up an appointment. We are in Walnut Creek, Ca about 40 minutes east of SF. If you would like to schedule a session to increase your pleasure IQ, please Contact us.

Extended Massive Orgasm

From Wikipedia: “Extended orgasm is any sexual experience more intense and extensive than what can be described as, or included in the definition of, a regular orgasm. It includes a range of sensations that include orgasms that are full-bodied, and orgasms that last from a few minutes to many hours…Distinguishing features of extended orgasm are enehrgetic sensations and contractions all over the body, especially in the abdomen, inner thighs, hands, feet, and genitals. [There are] reports of practitioners going into various altered states of consciousness, bringing about deep emotional release and rejuvenation, profound spiritual experiences, having awareness’s not normally perceived in regular orgasm, and perceiving energy expanding beyond the limits of their bodies.”

In simpler terms, EMO is a beautiful, powerful sexual experience that is accessible to anyone, if they truly desire it, and we teach you how. Learning EMO is not inexpensive; it will at least cost you time and practice. by reading our books and or watching our DVD you can start to become a great lover. Our spectacular dvd is now available as a download also. To be really good at anything usually requires some coaching and we believe that we are the best coaches available in this field. We have over 30 years experience each and have taught a number of folks who are now teachers themselves. the cost in money besides your time is not inexpensive but the value is as they say “priceless”

What You Get

We offer many valuable resources to suit all different types of people. Whatever you’re preferred method of learning, we trust you’ll find it listed:

Instructional Video

We have created a wonderful video of a one hour EMO in front of a class that you can purchase on this website. It is now available as a download or you can still obtain a DVD version in the USA or the PAL format.

Private Sessions

You can arrange a private sensual session with us to take you to that next level of intensity. We offer training to singles and to couples. You can learn quite a bit in one session, however by taking 3 or 5 or more sessions you will be able to really take your sensual life to a better place.Please Contact us. or call us for scheduling and pricing.

Phone Session Instruction

We are now available for phone sessions where we will talk about any desires or challenges you may face, singles or couples. Email or call us to make an appointment. We will definitely take you to a higher sensual place. We are now available on Skype or FaceTime. We just started giving half hour sessions for only $100; a full hour for $200. You will be amazed how much we can accomplish in a half hour.


We have 4 books that have been published by Hunter House Publishers that are available in book stores and amazon.com: Our first book that came out in 2000 Extended Massive Orgasm or EMO has been updated in a new version in 2013 with more information about pleasure and more drawings too. The Illustrated Guide to Extended Massive Orgasm has been the most popular here in the United States. For relationship issues we recommend To Bed or Not to Bed. Instant Orgasm is available as a book or as an ebook. Visit our book page on this website for a complete listing. Click on any of the book images to go to their Amazon page.

We are proud to announce the publication on amazon.com kindle of our 2 newest books. The latest released in 2013 is our first novel called Extended Massive Orgasm: the Novel, what else could we call it? It is filled with lots of juicy sexual descriptions and was the most fun book to write. Although it is entertaining it is another way you could pick up some wonderful sexual information.

The other book is Extended Massive Life: a true Love story and More. It is the story of our lives, how we got to become the sex experts that we are and many of the people that we met along the way. It includes many ideas on how to live better and have more pleasure without requiring any money; actually how to live communally and share with your friends.

We just published in 2012 a book of love poems available on amazon kindle

We have a DVD which many people have found to be extremely helpful.

We offer enjoyable and life-changing private instruction in Walnut Creek, California (join us)

Other People Love Our Pleasure-Teachings

We’ve touched the lives of many, and below is just a tiny sample of some of the beautiful, appreciative feedback we’re blessed with. Many of our testimonials wish to remain anonymous, and given the sacredness and intimacy involved with EMO, we trust you’ll understand.

“I would like to say that my visit with the two of you changed my life. My response with my partner improved immediately and gets better daily. I am so happy, thanks!!!” – Anonymous

“I get it! Not just mentally, but physically. I totally and completely get it — huge full body contractions without going over the edge, waves of orgasmic energy… I am THRILLED! And so, so, so grateful to the two of you for expanding my concept of what is possible, and for introducing me to the rest of my nerve endings, and for answering all my questions along the way. I am SO HIGH right now! It is funny because lately I have seen EMOS and orgasms as a huge metaphor for life and this breakthrough in my self pleasuring comes at the perfect time. I am about to enter a new phase of my life, one that I am calling “expanding my capacity to receive pleasure.” WOO HOOO… now the fun really begins! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!!!” – Anonymous

“I am grateful to feel so alive. I can almost smell the wetness of the soil, filled with nutrients, the smell of grass growing. I am so grateful to Regena, to Steve and Vera for this profound and deep experience. I never knew the body, my body, could feel so, so, so good–and that that feeling could affect Everything–my own perspective on reality. I am deeply gratified and grateful. I wonder what I will create from this moment forward…” – Anonymous


Now, You’re Ready

Hopefully you’ve browsed through the site, and gotten a feel for things, you have a strong and clear desire to elevate your sex life, and now you’re ready.

You’re ready to access your own pleasure-potential.

You’re ready to feel the sensations you’ve always wanted.

You’re ready to do it easily and in fun ways.

So go ahead, buy a book or if you are brave set up a session with us or purchase our DVD.